So me and a few friends wanted to celebrate Halloween together. We're getting the party basement from one of my friends' aunts. At first it was just the five of us, but now we're eight. There's a girl who got added to the group that I don't know and don't particularly like, and now the group costume is causing total problems.
First we wanted to do Monster High, but nobody could agree on that, and it was also said to be too expensive. Then three of us — me and two other friends — suggested fairies We also wrote directly who each of us would be, so there wouldn't be any misunderstandings, and asked if everyone was okay with it. Then it turned into a disaster.
People questioned who got assigned which character, then some said it was too expensive, and others didn't want wings. It was awful. So we…
This girl P is completely male centered and is still in love with this guy who has rejected her twice and now has a gf who she has called a h0 without any knowledge of who she is irl. The guy she likes is also a complete weirdo who watches gore for fun and says that it calms and relaxes him and when I told her how that was a complete red flag she defended him completely and said it was a joke and I just don’t get his humor which just was appalling. She also tries to change her appearance to his old crush but doesn’t make any real effort to do it. For instance I tell her about my workout routines and she just says “wow that’s amazing I wish I could that and have a nice body like yours…” As I tell her how she can exercise with simple YouTube tuts. She gets overly emotional and when me and my friends try to help her she just pushes us away until this guy goes over to comfort her she even pushes away her other girl crush (P is bi) just so this guy who even told me to tell her to get over him to comfort her. While she does annoy me I can also feel some empathy towards her bc of him almost leading her on