Need Help asap!!
So me and a few friends wanted to celebrate Halloween together. We're getting the party basement from one of my friends' aunts. At first it was just the five of us, but now we're eight. There's a girl who got added to the group that I don't know and don't particularly like, and now the group costume is causing total problems.
First we wanted to do Monster High, but nobody could agree on that, and it was also said to be too expensive. Then three of us — me and two other friends — suggested fairies We also wrote directly who each of us would be, so there wouldn't be any misunderstandings, and asked if everyone was okay with it. Then it turned into a disaster.
People questioned who got assigned which character, then some said it was too expensive, and others didn't want wings. It was awful. So we said, okay, then everyone can just dress up as whatever they want. But that didn't satisfy anyone either, and one friend wrote that in that case we might as well cancel the whole thing.
I'm so mad at everyone. Me and my two other friends are doing all the work, constantly coming up with solutions, and the others keep blaming us while bringing zero input themselves — nothing comes from them at all, and yet they still complain. Honestly, I don't even feel like going to the party anymore, even though I was really looking forward to it.
What do i do?😓
Honestly? Tell them straight up that if they’re not gonna collaborate then they’re uninvited from the party, they’re clearly gonna bring down the mood and ruin your party. Both of the themes you suggested were great, specially Monster High, and whoever says it’s too expensive isn’t creative enough to work with what they already have, or don’t know how to budget materials properly. Go as the Monster High theme and show them what they’re missing out on !!